It seems B is not quite ready for formal lessons. He was initially looking forward to it, but then almost immediately he dug in his heels and stated he did not want to learn the piano. Practice was pretty much akin to pulling teeth and quite complicated our mornings (or afternoons, whenever we tried to accomplish practice).
This presented quite a dilemma for me. On the one hand, we don’t want B to develop the habit of quitting the hard stuff. Self discipline and perseverance are necessary qualities to develop. But on the other hand, I did not want him to grow to hate the piano. If he’s truly not developmentally ready, pushing him now could make it very difficult later on when he is ready. I went back and forth between the two hands quite a bit before finally deciding to give him the option to stop for now. He stated quite plainly that he did not want to take piano lessons, much as he likes Ms. Krista.
Although I am pretty disappointed it turned out that way for B, another idea did flash across my brain. 🙂 I had a short stint of traditional piano lessons once when I was a kid, and again when I graduated from college (my gift to myself). As much as I wanted to learn piano, it just wasn’t clicking with my brain. But while working with B practicing the Suzuki method, something seemed to click that hadn’t before.
So, I asked Ms. Krista if she would mind teaching an old fogy like me instead of B. She said yes and now I am taking piano lessons. I have a twofold purpose. One, of course, is my own desire to play the piano. And, B will have the opportunity of watching me learn. He’ll see that I practice every day and, hopefully, get better as I go along. He’ll see what it takes to learn a new skill – self discipline and perseverance.
I must say that I have not given up on B and still intend to incorporate music/piano into our home-school time. I have found some music “curriculum” by Robert Pace for the preschool age group that looks like it might be more in line with B’s personality and developmental level. Check it out. I’d love to hear any recommendations from any more experienced homeschoolers that have incorporated music into their educational endeavors.