Several years ago I picked up a cheapo sweatshirt for my husband’s birthday. The quality was poor, to be sure. But I had to get it because of what was printed on it. It was a Promise Keepers shirt stating “Man of his word – Man of The Word.” That is my husband.
When I think back on high school and early college, I realize that I dated some real jerks. The kind you wonder “what on earth did I ever see in him!!??” or even “How did I survive dating that guy?” Now, there were a couple good guys that I truly hope found their soul-mate. And, who knows, maybe even the jerks grew up and got a clue that the world didn’t revolve around them. But I feel truly blessed to have wound up with my G. At times I marvel over it.
Now, he’s not perfect, and I could come up with a list of things that bug me pretty quick. Aah, but I’m sure he could make his own list regarding me, just as quick, if not quicker. 🙂 But, we choose not to dwell on those things. None of us is perfect – we all have our sin struggles. And there’s so much in him that I appreciate and am thankful for:
- Integrity
- Thoughtfulness
- Kindness
- Compassion
- A Gentleman
- Love
- Fun
- Friendliness
- Godliness
- A Leader
- A Great Dad
I could probably come up with many more words for the above list, but you get the idea. Let me give you an example of my husband’s heart. This past Sunday while I was cooking dinner, he was watching TV. I had no idea what he was watching until I went to tell him dinner was ready. I found him all excited and emotional over one of those Extreme Home Makeover shows with Ty Pennington. They built a home for this huge family that had homeschooled in their tiny house. The kids were just beside themselves over their new house and expressed so much gratitude to the team, and to their mom. You just had to see it; I was sorry I had missed most of the episode. G literally had tears in his eyes watching this show. We left dinner on the table and finished the show together.
Now, my big tough soldier guy probably won’t appreciate me sharing that. But that’s one of those times when I see a glimpse of his heart and how much he cares for people. I see it in his eyes as he watches B, too. He loves being a dad. I consider myself blessed to be among those he cares for the most. I am thankful God made him. I’m glad he is who he is. And I’m blessed that he is my husband.
Sigh. I miss you guys!
Susan
My heart swells with pride and love for you both. I really enjoy reading your posts.Ann/Mom xoxox
Thanks for sharing this with us – appreciate your hubby cos he is sure a blessing from the Lord 🙂
Sounds like you’re blessed!
Yes, indeed, I am.